1 John 2:19 ~ says; They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us…
If people leave, let them go and stop trying to make people stay in your life who are not tied to your destiny. There is an ordained place for you in the Body Of Christ and you ONLY want those body parts around you that BELONG there.
We should all be striving to find our place and fulfill our destiny in God. We should also be helping others find their’s. You will have a lot of people come “through” your life. Enjoy them, learn from them, help them, receive from them, and love them. A very small percentage will be with you for the entire journey.
When people are in their proper place in Christ they experience the fullness of God’s grace and the richest of relationships. If you are NOT in your place you are likely to struggle and have shallow relationships. Here is a little phrase that has helped me remember this:
If you’re out of your place, you’re out of your grace, and you’ll eventually fall on your face!